Making Joint Custody Work
Divorce, even in the best of cases, is never simple. Add children to the equation, and the possibility for feelings of resentment, loss, and injustice, increases exponentially. Deciding custody is often the most contentious moment for divorcing couples. One possible solution to this is to leave the option of joint custody as a possibility throughout your negotiations.
Joint custody means that both parents are given physical and legal custody of their child or children. If this seems like a scenario that might be best for you and the partner from whom you are separating, it is important to consult with an attorney so that you can ensure your rights and child’s best interests are protected. Contact the Austin divorce attorneys of Slater, Kennon & Pugh LLP, by calling 512-472-2431 to schedule a free consultation.
Tips for Joint Custody
Agree to joint custody cannot defuse a tense situation entirely, especially if the divorce is marked by hostility between the parents. A court mandated schedule for custody, however, can be important for maintaining civility and even-handedness in what could otherwise be an unhealthy situation for children. These tips can help with sustaining a healthy joint custody agreement:
- Maintain the Terms: keeping to the schedule and other stipulations handed down from the judge will ensure equity.
- Respect Authority: both of you are parents, and it is important that you respect your ex’s authority and autonomy.
- Be Civil: in front of children, it is especially important that things appear stable.
The most important aspect of the arrangement is the child. Do not behave in a way that jeopardizes either your relationship or that of your former spouse with your child.
Contact Us
Joint custody can be a challenge, but it often benefits all parties involved. For assistance with resolving your child custody situation, contact the Austin child custody lawyers of Slater, Kennon & Pugh, LLP, at 512-472-2431 today.