Dealing with Harassment by an Ex-Spouse

Some divorces are amicable, with both spouses agreeing that as sad as it may be, the time has truly come to split up for good. On the other hand, divorces can also be unimaginably messy, stressful, and even dangerous affairs. Many people never get over a former spouse, and the ways in which they refuse to let go or cope can have serious consequences for the other people involved.

Harassment by an ex-spouse can cover a wide range of behavior, from stalking tendencies and constant phone calls to out-and-out threats of violence or self-harm. It is crucial that you deal with these actions as promptly, effectively, and safely as possible, especially in the event that children are part of the equation. Even if you still have feelings for your ex, interference with your personal life cannot and should not be tolerated.

Steps to Take in the Event of Harassment

• If you can do so in a safe manner, try speaking with your ex about the problem, taking care not to make counter-threats or insults. He or she is obviously not in a stable emotional place, so remaining calm and making an honest attempt to root out the issue is a good first step.
• Explain that, while you want him or her to feel better, the current situation is negatively affecting you and too many other people, including neighbors, co-workers, and kids. It also jeopardizes any possibility of future reconciliation and friendship.
• Be prepared to contact the authorities. You may feel like making this possibility known to your ex. If you do, make absolutely sure that you do so in a neutral, factual way instead of as a vindictive warning.

Contact Us

The Austin family law attorneys at the Law Offices of Slater, Kennon & Pugh Ltd.LLP understand the challenges of navigating a divorce, especially when harassment is involved. Call us today at 512-472-2431 to find out how our experienced team of lawyers can help you through this difficult time.